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Food pressure, feeling compelled to eat something or a quantity of food that is not supportive to your health or fitness goals, can be manifest in countless ways. Whether perceived or real, food pressure can make the holiday season prime time for unwanted weight gain but it doesn’t have to be that way this year.
External food pressure is when someone is unrelenting in insisting that you eat a certain dish or a certain quantity of food. This person may be well meaning but the pressure can often come in forms of hurtful remarks (“oh so you are dieting AGAIN) or guilt trips (“I really worked hard to make this special dish. I can’t believe you won’t eat it.”). Internal food pressure is the pressure we feel when are compelled to alter our food choices based on what we believe those around us think or feel about our food choices.
4 Tips for Dealing with the Pressure
Tip#1: Offer to bring a few healthy dishes along to share. Your plate won’t look empty because you will have plenty of supportive options to choose from and maybe no one will notice you didn’t go back for your usual second serving of mom’s cornbread dressing.
Tip #2: Decide in advance when and how much you will indulge. Be polite yet stern when others try to influence you and focus on non-food parts of the celebration to turn the attention off of you and your dietary choices. Stick to your guns. Self-determination is one of the most powerful tools you have. If you go into a social situation with the thought, “I MAY have some dessert, a drink, etc”, you absolutely WILL have an indulgence and you will most likely feel bad about it since it was not part of your plan. This perceived failure then leads to more indulgences because the “I already messed up and I will start again tomorrow” mentality kicks in. You have the power and responsibility to remain in control- decide in advance.
Tip #3: If someone keeps pressuring you about your food, explain why you are choosing to eat what you have chosen and be enthusiastic about it. You just may inspire someone.
Tip #4: Realize that in most cases people really don’t care deeply about what is on your plate as long as you don’t make everyone else miserable because you feel you are missing out on the fun. Come to the gathering prepared with a game plan. Stick to it and most of all be upbeat and fun- no one may even notice what you ate.
This is one Fit Club member's unsupportive food designated area. It is in an obscure part of the pantry that she can easily ignore. Hopefully soon, her family will be following her example and this food can be tossed never to return again.
Bonus Tip: Don't nag. Don't judge. Don't be a drag.
Your decision to change should be about you! Lead by example but don't nag him to change just because you have finally seen the light. Don't make smart comments about what he is eating. Finally don't walk around somber and sad just because you no longer randomly indulge in unsupportive foods like your partner. Your change is supposed to be for a better you so be excited about the journey and the benefits. Your spouse will probably not be supportive if your healthy lifestyle change causes you to be in a sour mood all the time.
In summary, you can successfully transform your eating, health, and body even if you live with someone who doesn’t share the same desire. Sharing your motivation with them and then leading by example just may win them over to the fitness lifestyle as well!

In Part I, I shared my decision to drink my coffee without cream for a while to increase my mental toughness and sharpen my discipline with regards to nutrition. As I mentioned in the first partof this article, most people who are on a body transformation journey have a “cream” in their lives- the food that doesn’t serve a purpose in the nutrition plan apart from pleasure. Because these small dietary crutches can be abused (i.e. over consumed) and lead to self sabotage, discovering and gaining control over your attachment to your “cream” is part of your journey to success. I am not suggesting that you eliminate all pleasurable food (and certainly not permanently) but simply that you gain awareness of your daily nutrition habits and be on guard for any self sabotage behaviors or budding food addiction.
Below are my lesson from my black coffee experiment. If you relate to any of them, I encourage you to conduct experiments of your own to gain the habits that will make your success with body transformation and other areas of your life inevitable.
What I Learned:
• Most people need a strong incentive, ideally behavioral, to stick to changes. If I were giving up cream to look better in a bathing suit this summer, it would have been easy to convince myself that I could produce that outcome without the sacrifice of drinking black coffee. However since my goal was to sharpen my discipline, mental toughness, and to become aware of or overcome any food addictions I may have, the only path to achieving that goal was to go through the process.
• Set a timeline for the experiment – being overly restrictive or restrictive longer than it takes to gain insight and control can backfire. I failed to set a timeline for my experiment and after more than a month, I started rebelling by introducing other dietary crutches. I reminded myself that I hadn’t given up cream forever, that my goal of the experiment had been accomplished, and that I could move on. When I reintroduced cream, I didn’t like it as much, didn’t over consume it and stopped eating the other foods I had introduced. This experience can also be related back to the first point. My incentive had been met so if for some reason the experiement needed to continue, I needed to identify the new incentive to continue with diligence.
• Inability to give up a certain type of food for short periods of time is food addiction and the best way to break the addiction is to abstain. Addicition is defined as the state of being enslaved to a habit or practice or to something that is psychologically or physically habit-forming. Although it may be hard to reconcile an inability or unwillingness to give up nightly dessert, wine, or other nutritional practices with addiction- by definition this inability is addiction. At first I laughed at the thought of being addicted to coffee cream but I realized that when you crave, think about excessive, strongly desire, or have an inability to abstain from something (even if it is cream), it is time to gain control. I’ll be the first to admit that I was shocked to discover just how emotionally attached I was to having cream in my coffee- but not any more.



In Part I of this article, we introduced the six critical step to take the leap from thinking about having a body transformation to actually taking the day to day steps (while dodging the obstacles that are sure to arise) to make your body transformation dream a reality. We called this six step action plan turning on the switch to create a body transformation mindset. In this part of the article, we will introduce the last three steps to get your mind to focus in on achieving your goal in a way that makes success inevitable.
Step #4: Eliminate stumbling blocks.
A stumbling block can be a trigger food (food that you have a hard time controlling the amount that you eat or that leads you to eat more unsupportive choices), a food that makes you less than eager to train, or even a habit that hinders your ability to follow your plan (such as staying up late playing on Facebook and then being too tired to make it for your morning workout). Left in place, these stumbling blocks will sabotage every attempt at improving your fitness.
Body Transformation Mindset Action: In your fitness journal (you have one right?), keep track of the times that you have dietary slip ups and miss workouts. Don’t dwell on the non-compliance but once you have a few days recorded look for a pattern. If you see the same slipup occurring repeatedly, identify the corresponding stumbling block and eliminate it. If you keep binging on sugary cereal- stop buying it or give it to a family member to hide. If you can’t stop at just two glasses of wine at designated splurge times, stop drinking it altogether. If you stay up too late watching TV, record your favorite shows and designate a time to watch them on the weekend. Take the journey seriously. Embrace the challenge and rise to the occasion. These actions may sound drastic but really how serious are you about your results
Step #5: Be willing to learn and change according to what you learn.
If you have always tried the same style of working out and the same nutrition plan and those methods have failed to give you the results you want (even if they have yielded some results), then be willing to learn what the shortfalls of your approach are and change. The help of a professional fitness coach can prove invaluable with this step. A fitness professional who has gone through a personal transformation as well as helped other people like you transform would be ideal.
Body Transformation Mindset Action: Get the help of a fitness professional to build an approach that is suitable for your goals and lifestyle. Be honest with the person helping you about what you truly want to accomplish, your motivation, and past successes and failures. Take the information that you get and APPLY IT. Shopping around for a second and third opinion and applying bits and pieces of each person’s advice will surely lead to confusion and frustration rather than results. Pick someone you trust and then apply the information that they share. If it doesn’t work and the professional implies that it is solely your level of effort that needs to change (i.e. they don’t have a plan B for you) then it is time to move on to a different professional (assuming of course that you really have followed the advice with at least 90% compliance). It’s that simple.
Step #6: Get Accountable.
Be honest with yourself about the level of accountability you need to succeed and then get it. Some people do well with information and monthly check-ins to review progress and actions. Others need weekly accountability and feedback. Some people need almost daily accountability to stay on track. Figure out what you need and then make it happen. Often the difference between those that get good results and those that get unbelievable results is simply how many layers of accountability were built. One of our very successful boot camp members has built quite a few layers of accountability to get great results. She is accountable to me as her coach both in boot camp and in the semi-private Jean Drop Challenge. She is accountable to a few boot camp buddies through daily reporting via text and finally she is accountable to her friends and family on Facebook. She has built a deep circle of support for herself and her results are better because of this support.
Body Transformation Mindset Action: Think about whether you need monthly, weekly, or daily accountability to stay on track with your program. A huge hint may be how often you find yourself needing feedback or encouragement. Once you have an idea of what you need, get the accountability. If you need monthly accountability, join boot camp and take advantage of the coaching calls. If you need weekly accountability, join one of our challenges such as the semi-private Jean Drop Challenge. If you need daily accountability, couple the previously mentioned options with a boot camp accountability buddy and consider blogging or reporting your progress on Facebook. Do whatever it takes to keep yourself accountable and on track.
As you have learned in this article series, a successful body transformation is about more than calories, grams of fat, reps, and sets. You have got to engage your mind and build a transformation mindset to achieve your best body possible. The investment of time and emotions that it takes to create the body transformation mindset yields amazing returns. Get inspired and turn on your own body transformation mental switch!




